“In my home country town, girls in the back of cars after footy functions are ‘dirty’.”

There have been more than 27 cases in Australia involving 57 footballers and club officials relating to sexual assault and rape. And still no convictions.

In her book, Athletes, Sexual Assault and Trials by Media sociologist Debra Waterhouse-Watson refers to the protection sports players receive against conviction as โ€œnarrative immunityโ€. That is, the story created of the woman who must be blamed.

In my new novel, Siren (part of a PhD examining sexual violence in Australian football), Max, the owner of the apartment and an aging AFL player with injuries and issues, is deeply troubled by what unfolds. He represents the men who are silenced in this sporting world of heroes and TV panels.

In country Victoria, my home town, the โ€˜girls in the back of carsโ€™ after footy functions became dirty girls. The young men revered. There were stories of bucksโ€™ nights at footy club rooms involving strippers having sex with the groom in front of his mates. In one claim, with the father of the bride watching on.

She had it coming.

Did you see what she was wearing?

What do say to a woman with two black eyes? Nothing, she should have listened the first time (a favourite at my high-school).

Social researchers Peter Mewett and Kim Toffoletti suggest that Australian footballers โ€˜think that being footballers means that they must derogate womenโ€™ and that โ€˜this performance of masculinity manifests not only in physical actions, but also in the verbal discourse used by footballers to discuss womenโ€™. It keeps them as secondary, background figures.

In Anna Kreinโ€™s Night Games, author and sports commentator Tony Wilson remembers a regular social event at an AFL club in the 90s, referred to as โ€˜camel nightโ€™, where โ€˜everyone was to get a hump [have sex]. Each player and club official had to invite two girls who were not your girlfriend or wifeโ€ฆ So no one would get in trouble with their missus and tonnes of alcohol were supplied for these girls, who were basically nobodyโ€™s responsibility.โ€™

These misogynistic attitudes are nothing new. In A Season with Ron Barassi, sports writer John Powers witnessed a training session with the North Melbourne Football Club on a very warm evening in February 1978, when the temperature reached 38 degrees and players were complaining about the uncomfortable conditions.

There will be no concessions to the heat tonight!โ€™ Barassi told the players defiantlyโ€ฆ [โ€˜] donโ€™t whine like a pack of girls about the weatherโ€ฆnobodyโ€™s going to get away with being a weak sister and doing it easy tonight!โ€™

Forms of language that derogate women are pervasive in this sporting world. Krein refers to her experience at a pub trivia night in Melbourne where a question was asked about the name of the girl who died of a drug overdose while in a hotel with football legend Gary Ablett.

In response, someone called out โ€˜Alisha Horanโ€™ and the crowd cheered. While Ablett received a conviction for drug offences and was charged a fine of $1,500. The coroner announced that Ms Horan had โ€˜become enmeshed in a culture of alcoholism and drug taking with her football heroโ€™ and had been โ€˜partying out of her leagueโ€™ (The Age 2003).

Letโ€™s not forget that footy needs women. They make up half of the fan base. They serve up the hotdogs in suburban and country clubs. And for the first time they have their own national league.

But despite this the abuse continues. A woman was punched in the throat by a male fan at an AFL final in 2015. Only days later former AFL footballer and TV personality Billy Brownless referred to a mother and daughter at a social gathering as โ€˜strippersโ€™.

In 2016 Caroline Wilson was described as an โ€œembarrassment โ€ฆ and even if you were underwater, youโ€™d still be talkingโ€ by Sam Newman, responding to a joke on MMM radio about her being drowned. Wilsonโ€™s crime was to challenge Eddie McGuireโ€™s position at Collingwood after 20 years.

In 2005, the AFL presented their new โ€˜Respect and Responsibilityโ€™ policy as a โ€˜commitment to addressing violence against women and to work towards creating safe, supportive and inclusive environments for women and girls across the football industry as well as the broader communityโ€™.

But despite this, the problems have not gone away.  We need to look at our wider dialogue. The abuse of women in footy culture is bigger than the game itself. Itโ€™s about old ideas that need contesting.

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Dr Rachel Matthews is a Melbourne author, lecturer and teacher. Her debut novel Vinyl Inside received strong press reviews and was highly commended by the Australian Vogel Award judges.

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In my home town of Shepparton, this statue commemorates Uncle William Cooper (1860 to 1941), a Yorta Yorta man who, despite having no legal rights in his own country, led a march to the German Consulate in Melbourne to deliver a letter protesting the Nazi persecution of Jewish people, who he said were fellow citizens of the world. When I stand and look at the beautiful bronzed form of a remarkable human, it is hard to believe the void that was our high school lessons in 'Australian history' โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ–ค
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We met Priscilla at the Coachman Inn tonight, Parkes. Great to see women in Elvis suits, an alternative Elvis and lots of rockabilly. Then the treat of a burnt orange sky on the way back to Victoria, sending love to friends in country areas, stay safe โค๏ธ
Finally. All students in Victoria will learn the real history of our state. 
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๐’๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ญ ๐’๐ž๐š: ๐‰๐š๐ฉ๐š๐ง ๐€๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ง/๐–๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿšขโœจ
In the past few years, Iโ€™ve had the privilege of hosting writing workshops across Australia, Nepal and Finland - but this ship journey from Hong Kong to Japan was unique!

Sailing through late Autumn into Winter, on sea days we explored themes like sacred places and sensory stories through craft, history and food. What a privilege to hear pieces created by our global audience (from Finland, Alabama, New Zealand, Australia, Scotland, Hong Kong, Philippines, to Chile!). The audience also experienced Japanese poetry, origami and an impromptu Sumba dance performance (alongside my Mumโ€™s art works from Country Vic on the big screen).

Off the ship we enjoyed the reds and golds of Japan in late Autumn (Fukuoka, Saiki Minato, Kanazawa, Kyoto, and Sasebo).

๐˜ผ ๐™จ๐™–๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™–๐™ช๐™™๐™ž๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š:
Whiteness, the sound of winter, walking in the rain on cold, frosty days, Hong Kong skies, sombreness, Northern Lights, low-laying sun, soft snow falling like a blanket, plum pudding, prawns and sunshine, mother: warm towels, soup and dumplings, crisp air, a mountain walk to grandparents, the joys of model trains, Freddy the dogโ€™s obsessions, whiskey in Scottish snow and kilt surprises, riding a horse in elbow-deep whiteness, Christmas with Grandma, city blocks at first-snowโ€ฆ

A thank you to Pastor Paul from San Francisco for his incredible bilingual reading, (performed in English and fluent Cantonese in front of his very proud husband).

My favourite lines:
๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ
๐˜š๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต
๐˜ˆ ๐˜ง๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต, ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฆ.
๐˜ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜บ, โ€œ๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฌ!โ€- ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ 

Grateful to the superb Roma (Events Management) and sound tech master Miguel, the wonderful audience and Spectrum of the Seas crew, representing 41 countries! And to James as always, IT and green-tea expert, photography and comic relief โค๏ธ
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Meet Erwin from the Philippines, a dining manager with lightning skills and great humour, grabbing a few hours of sunshine between shifts in Sasebo (a port city in Japan with US influences post WW2). After months at sea, he can't wait to see his family in Jan. Erwin swears by ginger for seasickness (we've had a a few rough passages). Pressure-point wristbands worked for me. Placebo?
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โ€ข Women celebrating women in later life
โ€ข People celebrating women
โ€ข Women on bikes
โ€ข Women navigating grief and violence with tenacity and grace.
โ€ข Women with secret suburban lovers.
โ€ข First Nations women leading the way.
โ€ข Our honorary Meno Man VIP Tony Birch in fine form!

Snapshots of our recent final event for 2025 in Fitzroy.

Enormous thanks to Ian and Rob from the @tinpot_fitzroynorth, famous for its friendly, fun atmosphere...not forgetting the legendary cherry pie โ€” and to the lovely Katie Smith from @ramonabookshop. Thanks also to our fabulous facilitator, the always entertaining @trishboltonwriter and Tony B for the pleasure of his readings.

What a feisty, wonderful crowdโค๏ธ
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โ€ข Women celebrating women in later life
โ€ข People celebrating women
โ€ข Women on bikes
โ€ข Women navigating grief and violence with tenacity and grace.
โ€ข Women with secret suburban lovers.
โ€ข First Nations women leading the way.
โ€ข Our honorary Meno Man VIP Tony Birch in fine form!

Snapshots of our recent final event for 2025 in Fitzroy.

Enormous thanks to Ian and Rob from the @tinpot_fitzroynorth, famous for its friendly, fun atmosphere...not forgetting the legendary cherry pie โ€” and to the lovely Katie Smith from @ramonabookshop. Thanks also to our fabulous facilitator, the always entertaining @trishboltonwriter. 

What a feisty, wonderful crowdโค๏ธ
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Dr Rachel Matthews is a Melbourne author, lecturer and teacher. Her debut novel Vinyl Inside received strong press reviews and was highly commended by the Australian Vogel Award judges.

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